20 Weeks

How far along? 20w, 1d

Total weight gain: I lost two pounds this week, so back to -8.

Maternity clothes? Yes

Stretch marks? Not yet, that I've noticed.

Sleep: Pretty terrible.

Best moment this week: Hmm...we had a really rough week.  I took Tuesday off for my birthday, so I guess that was the highlight.

  Miss Anything? Wine, so much wine.

Movement: Lots of kicks, rolls and flutters; it is my favorite part!

   Food cravings: Not a whole lot this week.  Ham sandwiches and chips. 

Anything making you queasy or sick: Meat, olives, potato skins.

Have you started to show yet? Yes

Gender prediction: Hmm... girl?
Symptoms: At the end of the day, my back hurts pretty bad, but that's really it!

Belly Button in or out? In. It's already shallow!  I had to take the belly ring out yesterday.

Wedding rings on or off? On.

Happy or Moody most of the time: This week was pretty blah.  Excited, but also just REALLY tired.  Can't believe we're already halfway!
 Looking forward to: 20 week appointment with the midwife tomorrow!  And a water birth class tomorrow night.  I'm also looking forward to our next scan, but we don't have it scheduled yet, since tomorrow is our first appointment with the new office.

 

Wow.  Halfway!  I know I say this every week, but it is flying by!  Lilly continues to be the most adorable toddler ever, and I'm glad for it, because we had a ROUGH week.  I mentioned I'd had a cold since around Valentine's Day that Lilly and I kept passing back and forth.  Her cold turned into an ear infection and mine turned into walking pneumonia.  Last week, on Friday, I woke up with an extremely sore throat, and thought it was strep.  The tests were negative though, so I just kept up with the hot water, lemon and honey treatment that wasn't working.  Sunday it was much worse, and by Monday, I had a cough and was losing my voice and felt completely exhausted.  Like walking from the bedroom to the kitchen would have me really fatigued.  I had Tuesday off for my 30th birthday, and we had to cancel our fun plans, so I could rest.  By then, my voice was completely gone and my cough was really bad.  It was bad enough that I took half a day off on Wednesday and went to the dr.  She gave me an antibiotic and I took the rest of the week off to rest, and I'm feeling much better now.  About 50% better than I was on Tuesday/Wednesday!  I'm so glad for modern medicine. 

19 Weeks

How far along? 19, 1d

Total weight gain: still at -6 

Maternity clothes? Yes

Stretch marks? Not yet.

Sleep: Still not sleeping well.  Lilly and I are passing a cold back and forth, and she has an ear infection.  She's restless at night, and then so am I.

Best moment this week:My early birthday present to myself came yesterday!  I bought an at home fetal Doppler, so we can listen to the heartbeat whenever we like!

  Miss Anything? Wine

Movement: Feeling more and more!  It's my favorite part!

   Food cravings: Cereal, Olive Garden, wine, garlic bread, salsa.

Anything making you queasy or sick: Meat, olives, potato skins. 

Have you started to show yet? Yes

Gender prediction: Lately thinking boy.
Symptoms: Backache, nothing else really!

Belly Button in or out? In. It's already shallow!

Wedding rings on or off? On.

Happy or Moody most of the time: Really excited. 
 Looking forward to: We are meeting with two doulas this week.  I have Tuesday off to celebrate my birthday with Lilly and Mark.  And our first appointment with the midwife is next week! Then we have a water birth class, and a hospital tour.  So much happening! 

18 Weeks

How far along? 18w, 3d

Total weight gain: -6, making progress 

Maternity clothes? Yes

Stretch marks? Not yet.

Sleep: The past week it has not been great.  I've been sick with a cold, and I have to sleep sitting up in order to breathe.

Best moment this week: Hearing 2.0's heartbeat on Monday.  Also, we changed doctors!  I wanted to switch to a midwife that was highly recommended, but she wasn't taking on new patients.  I called and asked anyway, and she's taking me!

  Miss Anything? Wine

Movement: Feeling more and more! I'm 98% sure I finally felt baby from the outside on Saturday night!

   Food cravings: Cereal, Olive Garden, wine, garlic bread, salsa.  Also limes.  And salt.  So basically a margarita would be nice.

Anything making you queasy or sick: Meat, olives, potato skins 

Have you started to show yet? Yes

Gender prediction: I really don't know, to be honest.
Symptoms: Backaches

Belly Button in or out? In. It's already shallow!

Wedding rings on or off? On.

Happy or Moody most of the time: Really excited. 
 Looking forward to: So many things in the upcoming weeks!  

 

 

It's so incredible how much quicker this pregnancy seems to be going.  I can't believe we're almost to the halfway point!  We have two interviews with doulas next week - one on Sunday and one on Monday.  My birthday is Tuesday, and I took the day off, so we can do something fun with Lilly!  We have our first appointment with our new midwife on 3/9, then a water birth informational class that night (taught by the midwife) and a tour of the hospital again the following week.  Before I know it, it will be April, and time to celebrate Lilly's 2nd birthday!  I can't believe my baby is going to be two!!  Hope everyone is having a wonderful week!

17 Weeks

How far along? 17w

Total weight gain: -7 

Maternity clothes? Yes

Stretch marks? No

Sleep: I have good nights and bad nights. I end up getting up every night between 3-5 to pee, which is no fun!

Best moment this week: Hmm... nothing sticks out as the best, but it was a good week! I ordered two of my favorite maternity tanks and they came this week, plus I got to order a third since it went on sale!

  Miss Anything? Wine

Movement: Feeling more and more, but nothing super strong yet, which makes me think I might have an anterior placenta.

   Food cravings: Cereal, Olive Garden, wine

Anything making you queasy or sick: Meat, olives, potato skins 

Have you started to show yet? Yes

Gender prediction: this week, I think girl.
Symptoms: Backaches, cramps

Belly Button in or out? In. It's already shallow!

Wedding rings on or off? On.

Happy or Moody most of the time: Excited! Nervous.
 Looking forward to: Dinner tomorrow with Mark!

So, you might have noticed I'm wearing the same shirt in this weeks pic.  This time around, I'm going to try something different, and take my pictures in the same shirt so I can see the progression better.  We'll see if it works!

We have our second Bradley class tomorrow.  I'm learning so much even during the week, so I know it's been a good investment!  Since Mark works Tues-Sat, we are celebrating Valentine's Day tomorrow after class.  Today he brought me a bouquet of sweets and they are so good!  Mom, Lilly, and Auntie Jojo and I went out to dinner in Naperville tonight, which was delicious.  Pasta, my favorite!  

16 Weeks

How far along? 16w, 2d

Total weight gain: -7 (up three from last week)

Maternity clothes? Yes

Stretch marks? No

Sleep: I have good nights and bad nights.

Best moment this week: Saturday morning, when I went in to get Lilly, she said "mama!" and then "baby!" and pointed at my belly, rubbed it, and gave baby a kiss.
 Miss Anything? Wine

Movement: Little flutters and movement when I'm laying in bed.  Sometimes when I'm working too, if I'm still and quiet.

   Food cravings: Cereal, Olive Garden, wine

Anything making you queasy or sick: Meat, olives, potato skins 

Have you started to show yet? Yes

Gender prediction: This week, I think boy, but last night I had two separate dreams it was a girl.
Symptoms: Backaches

Belly Button in or out? In. It's already shallow though!

Wedding rings on or off? On.

Happy or Moody most of the time: Excited! Nervous.
 Looking forward to: Feeling the baby move from the outside!  I think it will be any day now.  I'm also excited about our Bradley Method classes. 

This week has been a pretty good week.  We had our first birthing class yesterday - this time, we're taking a Bradley Method class, in hopes that we have a different labor experience.  Looking back at Lilly's birth, there are a lot of things I'd do differently, and the hope is that this class will give us the tools we need to avoid the interventions we needed during the birthing process last time.  Since this is the last time we plan to do this, I'm determined, though I know that there is only so much we can control.  Our instructor did say that we probably couldn't have avoided many interventions with Lilly due to my premature rupture of membranes (water breaking without labor starting).  I really like the class so far, and am looking forward to the rest of our classes!   There are eight other couples in the class, and there is another couple with the same exact due date.  We're both the latest due dates in the class.  There's a few April, some May, June, and July. We're already looking forward to next Sunday's class!

Weeks 11-15

Well, here we are, into the second trimester already!  It's flying by this time, though those first few weeks of nausea and exhaustion seemed to drag on.  I know that this pregnancy will probably seem to go by much quicker because we already have one toddler keeping us on our toes (and boy does she keep us busy).  I'm trying to soak up every amazing thing about the miracle that is growing a baby, since I know this is the last time we'll be doing this.

The last few weeks have been pretty great.  I've (mostly) gotten my energy back, though I'm usually DEAD tired around 5-7 at night, which is the worst time to be tired.  No more nausea, and my appetite seems to be back, but not nearly what it used to be.  Now, I'm generally craving cereal; LOTS of cereal.  I went through four boxes in two weeks, and have a fifth open box in the pantry.  We had our 11-13 week appointment on the 19th, had our nuchal translucency ultrasound, and did some blood work for genetic screening.  Baby looked so adorable, and was very uncooperative.  S/he would not sit still for the tech to get good pictures, but it was ok for me, because that meant we got to see him/her for about 35 minutes.  Heart rate was 150, and baby was sucking their thumb - adorable!  Just like big sis!  The blood work was for the Verifi test, which looks for chromosomal disorders.  You can find out the gender from those tests, but we opted not to. :)  The nurse called me with the results yesterday, and everything looked great; though it's not 100% accurate, I feel much better.  I've also been feeling little flutters the past few weeks, and they've become more frequent, which is so amazing!

We've also been dealing with a sick little girl (and a sick daddy too).  Mark has been coughing for about three weeks; horrible, hacking cough, and it finally hit Lilly last week.  She had a fever Thursday, and Friday morning was worse.  She developed a runny/congested nose and a cough over the weekend, so we went to the dr on Monday, and she said it was bronchitis.  Giving Lilly her steroid medicine is a nightmare, and usually ends up with all of us wearing more medicine than she swallows, but she's much better so far, so the little bit she gets seems to be working!

I'll do a little catch-up post here, and then start my weekly posts next week.  Our ultrasound showed baby was 13 weeks, 5 days, but according to my due date, I was only 12 weeks, 6 days.  So I'm going to do the weekly updates in the middle, on Saturday! 

14 Weeks: Baby 2.0 is the size of a lemon!

How far along? 14w,6d

Total weight gain: -10.  Yes, I've lost 10 lbs, but it's ok!

Maternity clothes? Yes

Stretch marks? No

Sleep: Not too good.  I've been tossing and turning a lot.  I already feel uncomfortable on my stomach, so I probably have a few weeks left sleeping that way.

Best moment this week: Hmm... unexpected day off with Lilly on Friday was nice!  We got lots of cuddles in.
 Miss Anything? Wine

Movement: Little flutters and movement when I'm laying in bed.  Sometimes when I'm working too, if I'm still and quiet.

   Food cravings: Cereal, garlic bread, lots of random things!

Anything making you queasy or sick: Meat  

Have you started to show yet? Yes

Gender prediction: I go back and forth.  Mostly thinking girl though.
Symptoms: Headaches, exhaustion

Belly Button in or out? In. It's already shallow though, so I might have an outie before this baby comes.

Wedding rings on or off? On.

Happy or Moody most of the time: Excited! Nervous.
 Looking forward to: Feeling more kicks, punches, rolls, etc.  I can't wait for Lilly to feel the baby!  I think she'll be amazed.

Weeks 4-11

What a whirlwind it's been.  I can't believe I'm already 11 weeks (technically 11 tomorrow, according to the OB).  Either way, between the holidays, Mark getting three job offers, and starting a new job, it's flown by.

Let's start at the beginning, shall we?  I guess I was about three weeks pregnant when we found out.  Dating a pregnancy can be a little misleading, since technically you're considered two weeks pregnant before you're even pregnant.  My EDD based on my last period was 7/23.  I don't really count that first week, since I hadn't missed a period.  I called the dr on the day of my missed period, to schedule my first appointment.  She's pretty busy, but we got in on 12/9.  I knew what to expect from being pregnant with Lilly, so I was just anxiously awaiting that first picture and hearing the heart beat for the first time.

Weeks 4-6 were pretty uneventful.  My only real symptom was that I was RAVENOUS.  Around the middle of week 5, on a Sunday night, Mark was already asleep and I got up to go to the bathroom one last time before bed.  When I got up, there was blood.  Not a little, but a lot, and I panicked.  It was after 10:30 on a Sunday night.  What should I do?  I woke up Mark, hoping he would have an answer, but he was as baffled as I was.  Should we go to the emergency room?  With a toddler?  And work the next day?  Or wait?  I knew if there was something wrong this early, we didn't really have much chance of fixing it, so we decided to wait.  I went to the bathroom again, there was a little spotting, not much, so we felt a little better.  I called the OB first thing the next morning.  It was a holiday week, the week of Thanksgiving.  Due to some of my past history, they had me come in for some blood work, which I would have repeated on Wednesday.  Since it was a long weekend, I might not hear anything until the following Monday, a full week away.  It didn't help that my OB was on vacation, so I had to hope that one of the on call doctors would check her charts.

My first blood work came back on Tuesday.  The nurse called and said that my OB had looked at my results, and wanted me to keep my appointment on Wednesday, and also wanted me to come in the following week for an ultrasound.  I panicked.  Why?  My first appointment was in two weeks.  If she wanted me to come in before that, there had to be something wrong, right?  Mark was great at calming me down.  I went for my repeat blood work, and we went into the long holiday weekend holding our breath.  We decided to tell my family on Thanksgiving, because I wanted the support one way or another.

In between my blood work, morning sickness (or all day sickness really) hit me HARD.  That was good news!  I spent much of the week getting sick at the thought of coffee, and food in general, but I was still starving.  Thanksgiving morning was rough.  Let me tell you, throwing up in a Walgreens parking lot is classy.  At least I felt better to eat something on my favorite food holiday.  We'd thought of some great ideas to tell my family at Christmas, but needed some new ones since we decided to tell them early.  In the end we went with this:

Since my sister was hosting, we brought it as a 'housewarming gift' and had her open it.  She read it to herself and freaked out and hugged me... and everyone was wondering what was going on!  So I had her read it out loud.  There were lots of tears, and excitement!  It was great!  We still had a lot on our minds, but we were determined to enjoy our announcement and our holiday weekend.

I wanted to decorate for Christmas, and get our tree that weekend, but that Friday I was so sick and tired, I slept almost all day long.  We got our tree on Saturday, and Sunday was a repeat of nausea and exhaustion.  And my first blood draw came back and my numbers were sky high, so that was good too!  We had an ultrasound scheduled for 12/1 first thing in the morning.  I was so scared that morning.  I just hoped and hoped that everything was ok.  We got in the room, and the tech found the baby, and made sure there was just one and announced that everything looked good.  We saw the heart beat (what a relief that tiny little flicker was!) and she determined the heart rate was 114.  All good news. 

Baby's first picture!

My doctor called that evening after reviewing everything, and said everything looked great, and she was going to change my due date to 7/28 based on the measurement, and she would see me next week at my first appointment.  I was thrilled!  I think my due date is actually 7/25, since I was charting, but we'll let her keep it at 7/28. ;)

Week 7, we had our appointment.  We had another ultrasound where we heard the heart beat - up to 150!  It made me cry, again.  We talked about my nausea and I got some sample medicine to help, which has worked WONDERS!  I'm still exhausted, but now I have somewhat of an appetite.  We talked about a few new tests they can do, if I want them, and then I had about 15684 vials of blood drawn and a flu shot for good measure.  Then I scheduled almost all of my appointments for the rest of the pregnancy (up to 36 weeks).

Baby's second picture

In between all of this, we had to prepare for the holidays, Mark had THREE interviews and three job offers!  He ended up taking a new second shift job, which allows him to stay home with Lilly during the day, so it's a huge blessing for us.  We told everyone else the good news on Christmas Eve, and had a wonderful holiday with our families.  We slept at home on Christmas Eve, and it was so much fun seeing Lilly experience Christmas morning at home with all her presents!  She was so much fun, and kept saying "Oh look at that" (well, her version of it anyway).  Christmas with kids is so amazing, and I can't believe that next year we'll have another!

10 weeks... mostly Lilly leftovers, but there's a little bump.

Christmas week was wonderful, and then the week after was short with work, so it was more relaxing.  We're trying to get our house back in order, and get used to our new routine now that Mark is off Sunday and Monday, and home during the day.  We've had our bumps, but it's going to be great; we're very excited!

Like I said... it's been a whirlwind, but we're looking forward to all the crazy that is coming our way in the next few months!  I'm excited to keep you all updated with the progress as we get ourselves and our house ready for our newest family member!